The Men Carve Organisation celebrated its fifth anniversary by reflecting on its impactful work in promoting positive masculinity, mental wellness, gender equality, and youth empowerment through a range of community programmes.
In his opening remarks, Mr Lubabalo Mbiko welcomed everyone to The Men Carve fifth Anniversary gala celebrating, expressing appreciation and gratitude for the long journey that led to this milestone. He invited guests to greet one another and shared the joy of celebrating five years of meaningful service to the community. Mbiko thanked all The Men Carve members, and supporters for their continued contribution, noting that the event would not be a success without their gracious presence.
Musawenkosi Ngcongo, the keynote speaker started by introducing the theme: “Redefining manhood for safer and healthier society”. He continues emphasising the need for a society where power is not misused, and the guidance or men in leading with courage and dignity. The keynote speaker highlighted the common knowledge that The Men Carve initiative is praised for its transformational vision of redefining masculinity, moving beyond harmful stereotypes to foster self-awareness, empathy, and respect.
Ngcongo further emphasised, “Workshops on gender stereotypes and mental health education are mentioned as practical efforts in reshaping men’s attitudes. We must teach men that true strength lies in empathy, respect, and the ability to recognise responsibility.”
The Deputy Dean of the Faculty of Accounting and Informatics, Professor Thuys Swanepoel, praised the progress of The Men Carve mission in reshaping societal discourse and recognising the vital role women play in driving change. Professor Swanepoel emphasised the importance of confronting social challenges such as gender-based violence and fostering a culture of respect and inclusiveness. He further urged sponsors and stakeholders to continue supporting The Men Carve initiative, highlighting that their contributions have a long-term impact on vulnerable students and on shaping future male leaders committed to reducing gender-based violence and societal inequality.
Among the speakers who shared messages of support from partner organisations were representatives of Internet Society South African Chapter; Mr Mondli Mungwe, Like a Rainbow; Ms Zamasondaba Mashiyane , Fulfil Consulting; Mr Bradford Wills; and Dr Crispin Hemson. They each offered warm words of encouragement, acknowledging how The Men Carve has grown and urging the organization to continue striving forward.
The Food Parcel Coordinator, Event Coordinator and Donor Relations office; Mr Mandlakayise Nkosi, delivered a crucial passage about the importance of humility, empathy and reflected on greatness of applied humanity. Using a metaphorical analogy, he describes how our perspective of mountains appears differently depending on our individual proximity to greatness. He explained that when we are closer to them, they tend to disappear, just like unrecognised greatness or success. Our contributions towards a healthy living society may seem small or insignificant but stepping back and gaining a greater perspective reveals its true magnitude. Mr. Nkosi encouraged the audience to recognize and appreciate the greatness in their own lives and the opportunities they may often be overlooked or taken for granted.
Mr Nkosi emphasised the importance of grounding the work of the organisation in its guiding principles. He reminded attendees of the vision and mission, “To create a safer environment for women and girls, and ensure all males promote respectful manhood. The mission, to plant the seed of positive attitudes and behaviours toward women, girls, and marginalised groups while challenging the misuse of power perpetuate gender inequality, and to challenge the misuse of power.” He noted that meaningful change begins with individual responsibility, consistent effort, the fostering of respect, empathy, and accountability among men is essential in creating safer communities.
Ms Runyararo Murima a member of Men Carve, announced the awards for sponsors and appreciation awards for members of the organisation: Bradford Wills, Zamasondaba Mashiyane, Msawethu Ngcobo, Ndumiso Mthethwa, Minenhle Mvune, Anelisiwe Tengimfene, Nomzamo Mashiyane, Linda Zikhali, and Mandlakayise Nkosi.
Acting president of The Men Carve Organisation, Ms Anelisiwe Tengimfene in her closing remarks expressed deep gratitude to everyone who contributed to the journey, emphasising the spirit of community, mentorship, and shared purpose that made their work possible. “I acknowledge the dedication of this young team, the unwavering support of our partners, and the sense of belonging that each person brings into this space,” she concluded.
Pictured: The members of the Men Carve, supporters, and partners celebrated its fifth anniversary at the third annual gala dinner.
Photographer: S’bonelo Dlamini
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